9 Signs He’s Secretly A Terrible Person
What a convenience it would be for you if you could just pick out the bad boys from a group of people and just avoid them altogether. Too many times we’ve been caught in the situation of being smitten by a man, falling in love with him, and then later on discovering the darkness in his soul. It can be a heartbreaking discovery to find out that the person you’re in love with isn’t really a good man. It’s not a rare occurrence. Plenty of women have fallen victim to the charm of a man who shone that gorgeous smile until a girl’s knees went week.
From now on, women have to be more careful and more wary of the men who are just going to end up hurting them in the long run. Fortunately, there are some hints and signs that a girl can take note of to determine whether the guy she’s dating is a true blue douchebag.
1. He isn’t a good listener.
A good man would always be a willing listener whenever you have something to tell him. He should always be willing to lend an open ear to you whenever you feel like you have to express yourself. He values your voice, your thoughts, and your opinions. However, a man with bad character would only pretend to be listening to you but in truth, wouldn’t care about what you have to say.
2. He fakes his emotions.
He’s quite an actor. He deserves an Oscar for the way he fakes his emotions whenever he’s with you. He isn’t a sincere person and he feels that he needs to manipulate people with his acting. He rarely acts like he really is feeling, and he always comes across as a fake. It’s difficult to figure out where he stands on many things because he never reveals his true self.
3. He is a self-obsessed and narcissistic.
Never trust a modern-day Narcissus or Dorian Gray. You don’t want to be caught in the collateral damage of a man who only has eyes for himself. People who are self-obsessed and overconfident are often the most insecure people on earth, and they will only ever genuinely care for their own selves. You can never rely on a self-obsessed person to be there for you whenever you need them.
4. He makes jokes at the expense of other people.
He is keen on making fun of other people. He doesn’t care about the effect his words can have on other people and whether any feelings can potentially get hurt. Just as long as he gets a good laugh out of what comes out of his mouth, he’s always going to say it.
5. He never assumes responsibility for his faults.
He is a deeply flawed man, but he would never be one to admit it. He is always quick to pass the blame on to other people because he is childish and immature. He never chooses to just accept responsibility for his shortcomings because he is too much of a coward to live with the repercussions. He would throw any person under the bus at first chance.
6. He’s a different person depending on he’s with.
It’s as if he has a multiple personality disorder. He’s always changing his personality depending on the person that he’s with. You never really know who you’re dealing with when it comes to him. He has a problem with just being himself and letting his true colors shine through because he knows he has a dark soul.
7. He exhibits no signs of respect or basic decency.
Basic acts of chivalry, respect, and human decency are good signs of a person with good breeding. If he fails to act gentlemanly and respectful, then he is most likely someone who is mean-spirited and unkind.
8. He never admits that he’s wrong about something.
He thinks he’s always right. He doesn’t have an open mind, and he thinks that anyone who opposes him is wrong. He believes that truths of the world are only exclusive to him, and that all naysayers are always wrong. He doesn’t respond well to conflict or opposition.
9. He’s a serial liar.
Lies are always his thing. He is constantly digging up hole deeper and deeper with every lie he tells to get himself out of compromising situations. He doesn’t care whether his lies can hurt or affect other people. All he cares about is himself because he’s very selfish.